Rasulullah SAW dalam hadisnya bermaksud, 


“Wanita yang paling banyak mendapat kurnia ialah wanita yang murah mas kahwinnya, yang senang nikahnya dan baik budi pekertinya. Dan wanita yang jahat ialah wanita yang mahal mas kahwinnya, payah nikahnya dan yang buruk budi pekertinya."




Andai ada rezeki lebih, tidak salah untuk add on details to make it everything perfect on your big day... but most importantly is to be balanced about it all. Make sure it doesn't burden your fiance restless just to make you happy on that long awaited day... always talk and communicate, and be sure that its mutual. 


its the life you build with him on wards that matters most. 

Iqra... Iqra... Iqra

Salam,

I just want to share a short story with everyone.

When Jibril Alaihissalam was sent to earth to meet Rasulullah SAW, Jibril mentioned, Iqra, Iqra and Iqra.

Which means, read....read... and read. I see it that Allah wants Muhammad's ummah to read continuously and acquire vast knowledge.

Therefore I always try my very best to find time to read, any type of materials, need it be books, magazine, newspapers, journals etc.

I must admit with the evolution of the internet, it seems a lot of time is spent surfing rather than reading old school books. But it doesnt matter as long as you dont stop. Just keep on reading.

Hence I must take this opportunity to thank each and every one of you for not giving up on my blog. Thank you for reading it. It brings me great pleasure. May Allah bless all of you.

Its only because of your support, I still have the courage to blog.

Love,

Zain

Knowing He Was the One

I know some of you guys are wondering whats up with the title right?

Well suddenly, out of curiosity this got me thinking. A few weeks back, a close friend of mine, she got married but not to her fiance, but a guy she met 2 months prior to the wedding and only 3 times did they actually meet. After her wedding, I had dinner with her and obviously we were talking about the development of our relationship part of our lives. Apparently I am still playing the field. But I asked her, how did you know he was the one? You met him 3 times only before the day he lafaz akad. And she simply said "when you meet the one, your heart and head just knows". 


Mind you she was not the first one to say this.. Yes, when you, you know. 

But it hasn't come to me yet..


However I want you ladies to share with me, your part of the story. How did that "yakin" feeling come to you. Do share, Mashallah, how it would be a good way of sharing to others. Well yes, I am not at all ruling out to solat ishtikharah, however this is just a way to reflect moments that just come to you without you realizing it nor having any control what so ever.


Like they say, When you know, you know. 


xx

Long Time Coming

Salam....

MasyaAllah...

I think its been soooooo long since I shared anything..

So much has happened... Work has been horrendous..

personal laptop pon sorta had a glitch...

and so many other dramas

There has been tears... sadness...cuddles from good friends...

its been ok... seems like its getting better..

Zain harap things will only get better from now on.

And Zain mohon maaf sgt tak join the big gathering at Zone Park.

they say, sometimes the best gifts comes in the ugliest packages.....